How can u mend a broken heart?

Let the kids stay with your wife for a while. I know they are your hope and joy. But it might be best for them, and while they are away get your life back together so that the next time they come back to stay with you, they can be proud of their daddy for getting on top of things again. It takes lots of time, but kepp trying to get through to your children's mother. She is deeply hurt as well, so try to understand her side. Be open to this next idea.... Find a good, supportive church to go to.. You gain good friends who have had hard times just like you. These knew friends will fill in that lonliness is some way. I wouldn't find another woman... I would try to get her back.. it just takes time.. lots of time.