Have you emigrated, and how do you cope with feeling 'stuck' between two places?

My parents emigrated in their late teens from their home countries to the US back in the 50s. Their situation is different in that it sounds like you went to a quality of life that hasn't lived up to your expectations and they found what they were looking for. Nonetheless, my father in particular has never felt like his values are reflected in societal norms in the US. Personally I think he let it make him miserable, so I warn you against that. Make a choice and feel confident in it. If necessary organize a list of things you want and prioritize it. See how each can be obtained and make compromises if you need to. Just don't accept your position and mourn your lost home, number one you'd be making yourself miserable, number two, remember your home has been changing while you are away. It is not what you remember. Good luck.