Thursday, July 21, 2011

Boy I liked was in my DREAM!?

hahah damn girl :) .. well first of all u really like his guy :D! as we can all see and 2nd of all what people dream about in there sleep is what we think about after we go to bed ... i should tell his guy u like him

Why dont Christians oppose divorce laws as much as they oppose gays civil rights?

It's really easy to be against something that has zero impact on you, but really hard to feel the same way about something that does. Hypocritical, yes.

Poem about a storm--or is it?

It is interesting. I dont understand what might be an underlying message, but there are segments of it where I can almost see it isn't about a storm, as in rain.

Grieving i need help to smile again ?

My little brothers in the hospital and idk how to feel better and smile. I'm 6 hours away and I have no money to go be by his side. He's in icu I feel helpless. What do I do. Someone I just don't wanna feel like I wanna cry every second. Please someone tell me how to feel better I just want to smile. Make me smile or tell me how to smile right now I don't know what to do I just feel totally stuck

What should I do about someone who asked me out?

I work in my dad's doctors office. I'm a college student. I've only been working there for a few weeks, but today the office got a strange phone from a patient requesting to speak to me. When I answered, he talked about how he remembered talking to me in the office, and then, much to my surprise, he asked me out. I don't even remember this guy, but my dad told me his wife just passed away and he doesn't think that the patients thinking straight. Other "sidenote," he's 67!!!! I'm a little freaked out. How do I deal with this? Going out with him is NOT an option obviously. I think I might write him a letter. I just don't want to make him feel embarrassed, especially since he's grieving the loss of his wife. Help!!!

Meditations help...............?

I started my meditations career from past one year......when i did my first meditations..breath counting meditations which is easiest meditations...i satisfy that i can control thoughts n chatter.....after week when i do meditation i realise that i cannot control or pass thoughts n chatter....then i started searching another techniques like mantra,visualisation.....finally now i very dissatisfied with all types of meditations...i have always feeling that HOW TO MEDITATE PROPERLY....plz help me on how to meditate and how to adjust thoughts n chatter n make standard focus...i know practice make perfect....THANX FOR READING.....

I started the patch and am very dissatisfied...?

I have bled for a month straight. Is it true that you are more likely to become pregnant after stopping a birth control?

Studying Mortuary Science?

after a while, we develop hardness - imune to such suffering. but if we dont do so within 6 months, best to change jobs. can be trying! control the mind. obviate by distractions. not gonna be easy

What is a creative island name for a financial institution?

Our campaign theme is "survivor island" and we need to come up with a tribal name for our branch.Any suggestions?

Are there stories of meeting a dead dog in it's next life?

So my dog died last night and I can't begin to explain the thoughts that have passed through my mind during the last 24 hrs. I've asked myself questions like if I make it to heaven if I'll see my dog there too..But despite that, one thought that brought me some hope although crazy made me feel a little better while I'm trying to cope with this loss. My question is..Are there stories of people losing a pet and then later down the road meeting another dog which they felt an intense connection with? As if they knew this dog in a previous life or maybe if that is your dog in it's next life (if there even is such a thing)? Please have some sympathy. I know people have different opinions but I am grieving so maybe I can get some good supportive answers? Thanks a lot guys.

Crow outside of house for about 3 weeks?

the same blace crow has been outside for about 3 weeks now, he seemas to be sitting in the branches of my tree almost every time i come outside, no one else in the family has really noticed it and there are a total of 9 in my house, i recently moved in with my mom because of money issues, along with my husband and 3 year old son, this thing is really starting to scare me, is this a bad omen? if so what is it?

Extended warranty issues with Best Buy. Any advice?

I bought a Canon EOS Rebel T2i camera from Best Buy. At the time of purchase they told me that I needed to buy the extended warranty because if anything happened to it they would give me a new camera. I asked what the warranty was if I didn't buy the warranty and they said it was a 1 year warranty but it would be sent out for repair in house. I purchased the camera 12-26-2010 and the extended warranty for 1 year. After 5 months an internal crack in the LCD appeared. The camera was in safe care at all times and treated very carefully. We brought the camera to Best Buy where we purchased it. They said the repair would take 10-14 days and would be free of charge. I was shocked and said I thought I would be getting a new camera instead of it having it to be repaired since I bought the preferred warranty. They then told me that it would have to be checked out first. After three weeks of the camera being repaired, we called Best Buy and asked if it was back at the store. They said that they would replace the camera and needed us to come to the store and show us what it could be replaced for. They looked for the same camera to replace it and all they had was a camera listed as a shelf display. Since no camera was available we decided to go with the T3i because the T2i was being discontinued in 2012 and will not be restocking it in there store. They said we would have to pay the difference of $100.00 of the two totals. We agreed to that, but when we got to the customer service desk the cashier said that we would have to buy ANOTHER 1-year warranty. Best Buy did not hold responsibility to their word, and somehow by replacing the camera the previous warranty would be fulfilled. I am very dissatisfied that I have spent nearly $1000 and have had very poor outcomes with this camera and Best Buy.

Does the Quran in Sura 2, verse 62 say Christians and Jews go to heaven?

Salam Really based on the Qur'an surah 2 Al Baqarah ayat 62 Allah says that people who have eeman,jews,christians and sabi'in,whoever (among them)believe in Allah,akheerat life (Last day)and do right things they obtain rewards from Allah,they do not fear and they do not feel sad It means that jews,christians and sabiin who have converted to Islam,will go to heaven.

Louder rings available?

I cannot hear the ring when phone in pocket.Had 'the whistler ring on my last lg phone. is it available Last phone was 'lg' liked it a lot. new phone is samsung and am very dissatisfied .

Which skateboard should i get?

I have been skating for about a year and a half and my habitat deck just broke. Im not looking for wheels and trucks, just a deck. I really liked the habitat I had but I kind of wanted to branch out and try some other companies. I am also a fan of Shepard Fairey and Obey so I was looking at some Obey skateboards. I was leaning towards getting an Obey deck so if any of you have experience with those skateboards please let me know. Price is not an issue. Thanks

Is there an army regulation on extra curricular activities?

I am a PV2 in th United States Army and upon arriving to my unit I did not pass my DIAGNOSTIC p.t. test. I shouldn't of taken it to let my knee heal in the first place, but i was stubborn, and the results of the test showed it. I play semi-pro football for a team here on post, and now my NCOIC is trying to tell me that i cannot play anymore. I am not flagged and have always scored a 260 or above on the 10 p.t. tests I have taken since I joined until this one. I am not on any kind of punishment whatsoever and was simply counseld because of not passing the test. Does my NCO have the authority to tell me I cannot play football after I get off work on my own time? It really seems like he is just trying to screw me over for some reason and I think this solidifies why. My question to NCO's in any branch of military is this. If you had a soldier whom you thought was struggling physically reguardless of his or her oustanding scores in the past, would you force them to stop getting in better shape by making them quit the sports they are involved in? I know he cannot physically force me to stop, but I really would appreciate an army regulation I could show my first line NCO to show him that he needs to realize the extent of his authority.

Does the Air Force or Navy have the SMP program?

I know the army does, but I am still wondering if the other two branches that I mentioned have it. Help me out on this 1. If they do, can some one provide me with a link

I Feel Dissatisfied and am unsure how to feel fulfilled.?

I feel dissatisfied with the relationship I am in with my husband. I feel exhausted from trying to live up to his expectations and to be the person he wants me to be. I feel like if he truly loved me, he wouldn't want me to change. What do you think? I mean, I know everyone has problems, and I can try to fix all of mine, but shouldn't he be able to live with me as I am, instead of trying to control everything? For example, he says that I don't know how to monitor our bill paying, so now he is in control of the money. When he and I first started dating, he read an email of mine to a guy from school about meeting up like an hour before an exam to study (a guy whom I had absolutely no feelings for, lol) and got REALLY angry and that argument ended with me deleting most of my guy friends from facebook (over 300 people). Later, he started complaining that the way I did things were always wrong, he would call me dirty and lazy, and clumsy. He was my first and our first time having sex was not intimate. I didn't know what I was doing and I was so embarrassed. He made me be on top and then started yelling at me when I didn't know what I was doing. After that I never really looked forward to sex, it was so stressful for me trying to perform like he wanted. Now we are fine except I have a problem getting excited before we start, which he also gets angry about. He gets angry if dinner isn't ready on time, he tells me who he thinks would be good friends for me and who wouldn't. He controls what I wear...(whether its too revealing or not, etc) and tells me I have a bad sense of style and so he picks out clothes for me. He complains that I wear my hair the same all the time, if I wear sweats to walmart he gets annoyed and says I look homeless. He says I don't spend enough money on myself (wouldn't most guys be happy about that?). I work full-time, I cook dinner (from scratch) every night, I make the beds, wash the dishes, do the laundry, sweep the floors...I have a pet rabbit which I love, that I have to get rid of (because it chewed on some of his stuff). I have a bad memory and am really forgetful, one day when my mom was sick, she went to the hospital and so we drove to the hospital that she normally goes to, but then found out she was at a different one. He was so mad at me, he said he couldn't believe I graduated from college and that just because you did doesn't mean you are smart (I got a 3.7 gpa in biology, I know I am not that smartest, but I am definitely not what I would call stupid). I don't know what to do to make this situation better. He says I am just oversensitive and I know its true, but I just want things to change. And I know his temper probably isn't going to change, so it's left up to me to be the one to change. But I don't know that I can...I try really hard to be a good wife, but I never feel good enough. Also, I am starting to wonder if maybe I have a co-dependency problem, any thoughts on this?

Im really angry since my father passed away is this normal?

My father passed away several months ago and I am under stress general aspects from my life...i have been tremendously angry...I feel that i may hurt someone...I have alienated my friends and people that are normally friendly...I never been like this just recently since my father has passed away...is feeling angry a normal part of the grieving process..

What do you think of this poem (translated from German)?

google translate really helps a lot. For this one, you caught not only the textual translation but the spirit of the song as well. Sch�n gemacht. Vielen Dank.

How do I get someone to stop stealing from me?

You seem to know some of the things she has stolen, the wedding ring and necklaces, report those as stolen to the police, then at least you have a solid example of her thievery

Why are nearly half of Republicans dissatisfied with the current crop of candidates?

Because they won't risk any golden candidate this election, they pretty much know that beating the incumbent (Obama) is going to be way too difficult of a task so at this point why not let Romney run for President who will not win but at least he'll win more electoral votes than McCain did hence making it a closer election and eroding some of the Dems' strongholds and at the same time they get 4 years to really groom up a good charismatic contender next time around such as Marco Rubio, John Thune, or Aaron Schock. It's called strategy and it's not the first time it's been done, see John Kerry 2004, Bob Dole 1996, and Walter Mondale 1984.

Can somebody give me some advice,I feel very helpless?

Tommorow is Father Day I think,and this morning I found out that a friend of mines dad passed away in the early hours of this morning. (Its just awful because his dad was quiet young,and the disease he had unfortunately got was only properly diagnosed about three weeks ago). The friend is one of my best friends boyfriends,so that's how I know him,know him for around three years. He is one of the best people I know,and while I know that this whole situation is most definatly not about me,it deeply pisses me off that these kind of things happen to very good people. Obviously this friend is in a bad place at the moment,and I won't give him a shout or anything today,just let him be with his family and cousins and grieve without hassle from outsiders. I only ever saw his Dad twice I think,or heard him on the phone to my friend. Anyway,I guess what I'm asking for is,(I have no clue what to do) how should I be there for this friend. Obviously I will go to the funeral and pay my respects,but I feel very awkward at funerals (who doesn't),I know that sounds extremely petty,but I really have no clue when it comes to these things. The only time I ever knew someone close who passed away was a close friend of mine in my childhood. I know that my close friend who is his girlfriend will be there for him, (shes been great in throughout this whole sadness,shes definatly been his rock),and that he will know that he is not alone,but I guess I don't know what to say to the lad. Words like 'sorry for your loss' seem so..blank. Do I just say a hello and act like myself? God I'm such a toolbag,I can't believe I'm even posting this. Any advice (please be sincere) would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Ok i've tried but i cannot get over loosing my baby, little help?

I was pregnant for 6 weeks until last week and i lost the baby on Tuesday night, my guy been brilliant and i been leaning on him a lot but i still feel the same way as i did on Tuesday night. It was all confirmed on Wednesday when i went hospital to get checked out, which my bf attended. i been leaning on him a lot, he's been taking care of me, while i was in hospital he barely left me alone when he did (just popped to the toilet) he came back to me crying. I still haven't gotten much better. I have tried to give him the space to grieve himself but he refuses to take those, he said "you need my support and i'm the man i need to make sure you get through this" what should i do to try get over it? what do i do? where do i go? I want to give him the space he needs to grieve himself how do i get him to take it or is him comforting me his way of going about it?

What career in the AirForce is best to pursue a civilian job in Game Development/Creative Director?

I prefer the AF but any Military branch will do. I've done some research but can't really find a job/training in the AF for that. Would I have to just choose something with computers and have them help me pay for college in the particular field or? Has anyone gone from the Military into Game Development, or from any Military branch for that matter?

Writing Help? Anyone?

Hey guys, I've been writing a book and I've already got a well thought out storyline and I'm even planning on making this a series in the future. I'm currently on page 65 with over 30,000 words in all. Recently, I hit a bit of writer's block (who hasn't?) and I've been trying to figure out just how I'm going to pick up the story from there. Unfortunately, rather than think of ideas for this story, I've lately been thinking of ideas for a completely different story/series, and now that I have plans to make both books branch off into completely separate and equally entertaining series', I have no idea what to do. Do I continue my work on the series at hand and scrap my new idea, do the exact opposite, write both at the same time, or something else? PLEASE HELP!

I FEEL DISSATISFIED.WAT TO DO?

well dis year i have applied for mba and i have an institute finally in hand.now i couldnt score the best in my entrance and so couldnt get the top institutes bt considering the killing competition and how some lucky students just get thru i still find myself lucky enuf to be getting a seat in a decent college.now i am a fresher and have always wanted the best institutues to study in,as luck wud have it its been a tough 1 year and honestly i have never put in so much of hardwork as i have in the past 1 year.so now i still want the best for myself ,i hear of randomn people in better institutes and feel well have i missed the buck ,maybe i wount be able to be a part of dat circle .i am very ambitious and i will get a good job down the line i noe,so should i feel dis dissatisfied.i cant stop compare sometimes.after all u r competing with d best .

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Woman, I want an ANSWER. (?)?

I only make sacrifices for the people I love and sometimes for my own sake. I really don't hide my grief--I cry. Breaking things meaning replacing them. We make compromises in order to get along in life.

Does Arlington Tx have a tree removal service?

I recently did some tree trimming and stacked the branches on the curb. They've been out there two weeks now and my neighbor said she got a ticket last month for hers being on the curb. I just moved here from garland and i know they came by every couple of weeks and picked up limbs and debris. Does Arlington not have anything like that?

Got pregnant but lost it, still not gotten over it, HELP?!?

I was pregnant for 6 weeks until last week and i lost the baby on Tuesday night, my guy been brilliant and i been leaning on him a lot but i still feel the same way as i did on Tuesday night. It was all confirmed on Wednesday when i went hospital to get checked out, which my bf attended. i been leaning on him a lot, he's been taking care of me, while i was in hospital he barely left me alone when he did (just popped to the toilet) he came back to me crying. I still haven't gotten much better. I have tried to give him the space to grieve himself but he refuses to take those, he said "you need my support and i'm the man i need to make sure you get through this" what should i do to try get over it? what do i do? where do i go? I want to give him the space he needs to grieve himself how do i get him to take it or is him comforting me his way of going about it?

Suicidal 15 year old girl also suffering from depression?

Okay here's the thing..I'm 15 going on 16 soon. When I go to school I'm bullied, but not directly. My peers are always talking about me in bad ways secretly, thinking that I can't hear them.. I try to ignore them I really do but it always sinks into my mind and I end up going home and crying in my room. Sometimes it leads to me cutting myself. Lately I've been very dissatisfied with my outer appearance. I think I'm ugly and all my friends are literally way prettier than I am. I'm pretty popular but it's mainly because I'm such a funny person. I feel way better as long as I make people laugh. I feel like a clown who feels as if as long as everyone laughs, she'll be okay.. I've lived like this for YEARS. Being in high school is slowly dropping my confidence.. I'm having suicidal thoughts lately too. Even suicidal dreams. I once woke up from a dream choking myself in real life. I couldn't believe what happened but I didn't tell anyone.. I also used wake up with bloody scars on my arm and a knife next to me.. Lately I've just really wanted to die. My mom is also very non supportive. She also makes fun of. She bullies me verbally. I hate school; I hate my family (seriously I avoid family as much as I can); I hate life. I want to get help but my parents don't believe me. I also suffer from constant panic attacks. I panic even when people simply say my name.. I just don't know what to do anymore.. I'm also suffering from insomnia.. I usually cry myself to sleep.. I'm I'm also suffering with my sexually and my parents are complete homophobes who think that people who like the same gender deserve to die. Help me? Advice? and I don't want to hear people say "tl;dr" -_- I'm just tired of wearing this stupid mask :/ I really can't describe everything I'm feeling in this so I'm sorry if I seem like a fake or something..

What should I do, I'm scared of messing this all up...?

I'll finally be moving out of my parents' house in the next couple of years and on one hand I can't wait. My mom doesn't know me anymore at all, she only thinks she does. Almost 8 years ago a dear friend of mine died and she refused to let me attend his funeral because she thought she was protecting me. Her parenting style took over and she was blind to what I actually needed (to be there) it was her way or no way and it drove a wedge between us. We aren't on the same page about anything and it really upsets me because I want a better, deeper, relationship with her. I really do. but every time I dare open my mouth about that funeral and how it hurt and I think we should have an honest talk about it she either starts yelling at me or belittles me relationship with that friend and acts like it was a passing childhood phase and I have no right grieve for him and never have. it's for this reason that I have yet to tell her that I've converted from Methodist to Orthodox Christianity and now she doesn't have 1 single clue about the deepest part of my life. If she can't recognize my thoughts and feelings about something she was there for and should understand as valid, how am I supposed to tell her about the slight change in my faith? I have to. I know I have to because if I don't I'm scared it won't be long after I move and we'll be strangers to each other. Please, Help me, what would you do?

What are the medical regulations for joining the marine corps?

If you have a doc. or anything about medical info., please let me know cause i can not find out what will stop me from joining because regulations for some branches have changed.

My life is one big facade and one big disappointment and my mind is poison.?

Go see a therapist or something. I used to hate my life (for like a day), but I realized that the world is terrible, but also beautiful. Not everything is sunny-side-up, but it's not like everyone you loved shot you. There cannot be peace without war.

Any song lyrics or quotes to sum up how i am feeling..?

Hey,, Just wondering if anybody knows any song lyrics or quotes about how i am feeling. Feel like theres no way out i'm in loads of debt, i'm grieving for a family member, and everything around me seems to be falling apart. Used to have a drug problem, but have been clean for a year now, and i feel so close to just going back to that to help me cope, either that or,, well. I dunno. Any songs or quotes that have anything about these things in, Please let me know, Thanks for your time x

Should i give my dishwasher and refrigerator their own supply lines?

I am an owner builder and I am currently working on plumbing for my house. I have taken a class at a community college so I kinda know what I am doing but I have run into a dilemma. What I have read in my Stanley Plumbing book is that I do not need to give my refrigerator or my dishwasher their own water supply lines but rather can branch off the sink supply lines assuming I am only installing one sink, dishwasher and refrigerator in the kitchen (which I am). My question is: "Is that the best way to go?" I am worried that this may result in low water pressure in my sink when either the ice maker or the dishwasher is running. Also the fridge will probably have its own water dispenser too and i my book said nothing about fridges with water dispensers. Insight from experienced plumbers or people who have installed new kitchens will be appreciated. Thank you!

Would you consider yourself lucky if they told you your baby didn't miscarry?!?

If you were told you had miscarried, thought you had passed all tissues etc. but had not actually, but it was just the remains of a possible twin or something else, and you kept gaining weight and they did an ultrasound and found a baby ALIVE in you?! Had a friend this happened to and she was very overwhelmed because she had already grieved and now her baby got "given back to her"!!!

Do you believe that humans have the power to control thier emotions?

emotions are chemicals in the brain. You can pretend not to be mad or sad but on the inside you still feel it.

I'm starting to feel more like a friend than his girlfriend. Advice?

My boyfriend and I have happily been together for 8 months now, yet I think he is too comfortable with me now. I'm the romantic one in the relationship- I'm one of those girls that likes to be held and kissed a lot, and its something i can't help. My boyfriend has admitted he is not a romantic and isn't into doing those things a lot, and lately I'm starting to feel like he wants me more as a friend than a girlfriend. We text all the time and hang out all the time, but what can I do to get him to remember that I'm his girlfriend and give him a wake up call that I'm more than his friend? I read online that if I branch off and start making plans more with other people and start texting a bit less, basically being more independent with myself and doing more things outside of our relationship, that he should start to want to hang out with me more and would treat me more accordingly. Do you agree with this or have any helpful advice? Should I give him lots of space or text him less? I've talked to him and told him these things, but I don't want to know what I need to tell him, I want to know what I have to actually do. Thanks in advance.

With over 90% of the terrorist attacks perpetrated by Muslim, why is islam “religion of peace”?

well, you make a good case on the surface. i think we call it that, not based on the facts or the numbers, but to show some respect to the muslims out there who have been nice enough to remain peaceful, and not follow the examples of the terrorist extremists. even with a strong statistical correlation, it doesn't mean that every muslim is also a terrorist.

My boyfriend has become discouraged about job hunting, what should I do?

My boyfriend of seven years is becoming quite emotional to the point where it is ridiculous. The two of us have been looking for work for two years now and it has been quite a bumpy ride. In high school he was lucky enough to get into the Y.O.P. program that was funded by our city in which they put you on a job site for 6 weeks and you get paid for it other than just gaining work experience. Thus far he has held three jobs but his most recent one is dissatisfying. Were living together now in my dad's deceased house where my brother joey pays most of the bills but we want to be able to take care of ourselves rather than hearing him complain about how he has to take care of us. My boyfriend has worked as customer service representative at dollar tree, as a maintence worker for the public works, and now as a part time sign dancer. But a new sign dancer has come along for the place he's working at and the guy gets more hours then my boyfriend. My boyfriend has been working at this place for a year and yet the new guy gets a promotion instead of my bf who has seniority. We've tried every where but it seems like the only way you can get a full time job is if you know someone who works there. His cousin works at target but not even she will help him get in. Right now our friend dallas has a job at target in a city 2 hrs away and says he'd be willing to help him get in but my bf just says he gives up and doesn't care anymore. I on the other hand have a friend who works at taco bell who says he'd be willing to help me get in.... but i'm thinking of handing that over to my bf so he'll be happy, despite the fact that i'm tired of staying at home all day and only getting food stamps as a way to contribute. So what should I do? I want us to succeed in this life...

Helllp!!! need help comforting my grieving boyfriend. Things to say???? Ugh help?!?!??!?!?!?

my boyfriend is going through a mid life crisis here. He has been through so so much. And people has treated his so foul. He says that his mind is basically fried from thinking of it that he cant process things the way he use to anymore and that he cant keep as calm. I tell him that its not his fault and that he shouldnt blame hiself. And that everybody that done him wrong have some shyt commin to them. Im not a good comforter being nobody has ever comforted me before and that i have always held stuff in. I dont know what to do. I need some good words to say asap. Pleeeeeeeeeaaaaassssseee help. I love him so much and he deseves the world.

Trying to concieve,health insurance,jealousy..how to deal w/ it all?

How to deal with the jealousy, one day at a time. That's all I can say about that. I am 24 and have been trying to have a baby with my husband for almost 8 to 9 years now. Good luck.

Is the Biblical god's ego really so fragile?

He did this for YOUR good if you think about it more. Yes God does everything for our good no matter the circumstance. By Job's example, generation after generation could understand God's will and that we should follow it. It is saying that works trying to be perfect are futile and we must adhere to God's will not our own. We alone aren't perfect but in Christ Jesus we could be.

What's the most unexplainable thing that has ever happen to you?

I myself would say i believe in the paranormal. im not talking all scary things and fake tv shows that just have "ghost hunters" turning the camera saying " did you see that" " did you hear that" crap.. im talking about things that have actually happened to people, whether it be good or bad. people may say its bull or that im delusional but i know wat has happened and if no one wants to believe then thats their choice. im not one to go out and call out ghosts and say im a ghost hunter blah blah blah... but i do believe that someone who was once living can somehow be with or around you. My favorite experience was after my grandfather passed away. we were so close , he was like my father since my real father skipped out on me, and when he passed away it was horrible and tramatic, i saw him dying before my eyes and i feel very special that i was the only one he hugged and kissed right before he died as if he knew he was going to pass away that night. well a couple of months later i was still grieving and i wished i could talk to him and just hug him one more time, i was alone in the front of the house while my mom was n her room in the back of the house, as i came out the kitchen i looked into the hallway and i saw my grandfather in his wheel chair smiling at me .. im not gonna lie i was scared .. so i jumped back in the kitchen to think about what just happened, i peeked at the hallway again but he was gone, i was so sad that i didnt have the courage to try to walk up to him, even though i was sad i was still grateful that i got to see him while i was in a very sad place in my life. after that day it only happened again once a few years later and never again. that experience was very special to me. you can say what you want and call me crazy but i know what i saw and exactly how i felt that day. i cant force you to believe what happened but i can tell you it was real to me. So the question is what is the most unexplainable experience you have had with the "paranormal".. good or bad..only answer if you have had an experience and believe that theres a possibility these things can happen, dont answer if youre just some one who likes to ruin things for people. thanks

My fiance is really mean/careless towards me lately.. what can I do?

Do not marry this man unless you are 100% sure that he is the man you want to be with. If he is rebelling against the wedding then there is a reason. If you love him and want to marry him, then just hold off the wedding. Give it more time. If you love him now, you can still love and marry him later. It is better to postpone the wedding then deal with a divorce b/c you rushed into it. Sorry for your loss, but I agree, you need to take time to grieve. A wedding will not solve anything, only cause more stress.

Michelle Branch t-shirt/vest?

I was browsing some videos on youtube and came across this video: a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5CmYthenvY&feature=related" rel="nofollow"http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5CmYthen…/a although i don't like the song i love the singers vest but can't find it anywhere. Don't suppose anyone knows where i could find it or a vest similar? Thanks :)

I'm a 5'3" male, am I military material?

Im 17 years old and I'm 5'3". Am I too short for the military? If not, what branch should I join, the Air Force, Army, or Marines?

I need music to help us grieve?

so some of my friends were in a horrible accident this weekend and one of them passed away my class and i are all together but have decided we don't want to be sitting in silence and shock. we are looking for songs that will help us greif. music about someone dying young or anything. alternative music. thank you

WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WERE ME?????HELP HE"S DRIVING ME CRAZY AND I'M NOT THE BIPOLAR ONE HERE!!!!!!!!!?

You had so much unnecessary information (your Sunfire) that I got fed up and quit reading. What was the problem? The spinning of his head?

Can we get a court order to exhume my mother in law and bury her in the back yard?!?

My husband has never dealt with his mother's death and misses her immensely. We want to dig her up so he can see her again and hold her and grieve and let go. She died in the winter of 1989. How do we get a court order so we can exhume her and then bury her in our back yard?

I'm thinking of converting to Islam but I don't want to blow things up?

im dissatisfied with Christianity and I want to convert to Islam as I think ALLAH is my true saviour. but i dont want to blow things up like all muslims do. i'm not sure hwat to do. help please? thank you.

How will I make it through this... Grieving?

I woke up to find my boyfriend passed away beside me in bed. I feel like I am so lost. He had a very known drug addiction but I am having a very hard time accepting this and making it through everyday. This is my first real experiance with a death so close to me. Should I be feeling like I am working backwards instead of starting to feel better?

What do you think of my talent?

I'm younger than you and I consider most of my verse's three times as better as yours. ^ Guy up there, will you produce tracks for me?

Do you think life in the Soviet Union was as bad as the movies portray it?

There's a phenomenon in Germany they call "Ostalgie", a pun on "East" as in communist East Germany and "Nostalgia". The Russians you talked to could be experiencing this kind of Nostalgia. It was indeed horrible (from what I understand), but at the same time these people probably had their first kiss in that period too. How could you not look back on the past somewhat romantically?

Whaddya think of my poem?

Did you write this? Because it is amazing.... as in AMAZING!!!!!! I cant believe this....im...imm... speechless. Really. I mean.... you have got to...submit this to a company and u will go places!

How to stop prematurley ejaculating, i leave her dissatisfied?

Avoid too much thinking about controlling the act, let itb take its own course. If she loves you she will love you any way, what you tell is normal unless you want to be an olympic champion.

Why doesn't he want me?

If you are not satisfied, give him up, maybe he would go back to his wife, believe me, the grass in never greener on the other side!

Friend acting strange?

Maybe she has a skin disease.You should ask her.And if she is cutting herself ask her and help her out.That's what friends do :)

Taking house off the market & changing realtors?

I've had my house on the market for about two weeks now and I'm very dissatisfied with the realty company selling it. And it's not because of activity either. I understand the market/economy today. The reasons are too many to list, but the bottom line is this...the company seems to be ok with me taking my house off the market. However, I may be rethinking the situation and selling it myself or going with another realty company. One of the agents is coming to collect the lock box and For Sale sign in a few hours, and to provide me with a form to sign, permitting them to take my house off the internet mls listing. My question is this...is this a standard form used, and is there any time line or clause that generally says one cannot relist a property with someone else, or sell it themselves, within a certain amuont of time? Or is it just cut and dry and releasing me from their mandate? I'm very mistrusting of this form, and the company, and what it may, or may not, say in keeping me connected to them. BTW, the agent never left me a copy of the listing contract when I signed two weeks days ago. Just another reason of why I believe they are not doing things professionally. I live in NJ, if that helps. Thanks to all opinions and advice...

I need the title of this film please ?. Im convinced this film was directed by Alfred Hitchcock.?

Hi Michael the film is called Murder! It is one of Hitchock's earlier films that people don't watch as much but they are very good.

What do you think a tree with no leaves symbolize?

I've been looking at tattoos of trees lately and I've noticed that nearly all of the trees I see have no leaves, just branches. What do you think it means? I was thinking of getting one myself but I wanted a tattoo that was meaningful. I want a tattoo that will represent myself, my pain, my struggles, my ups and downs, and my strength. A tree would be perfect, I'm just curious why trees with just branches? Nevertheless, it does look gorgeous..

Are Satanists / members of the NWO / Illuminati held in spiritual captivity by their fear of death?

No. ALL the way down. You are the one who should be called that since SATAN is the one who twists the words of the bible to suit his/her own purposes. SATAN is NOT what people say, it is what people DO!

I need a complaint letter for poor service. Thank Q?

Write exactly what the guidelines call for. Are you in college? If you are looking to yahoo answers to fulfill your assignment, then that is sad and shows your level of laziness.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Can you re-enlist after getting an OTH in the marines?

My fiance went awol from the marines for two years but was recently caught and brought to the Camp Lejuene Brig. He was told he's going to get a oth discharge. He told me he's thinking of reenlisting to finish out the time he originally signed up for. Is this even possible? I've read that an oth barrs you from serving in any branch of the military. Can this be just an idea of his or is it possible? He has to serve 30 days and then stay in an unit for 2 months before he's discharged, Is there a way he can re-enlist during this time?

Does it matter what branch of service you are in to get respect from junior personnel?

this is in regard to I am in the Navy I am an E5 and I work at a Marine installation and I also am the only Sailor in my office. The issue is when I ask a junior Marine to do something they go to the Marines and play mommy daddy role and the other NCOs and above back them up. I Have been having this issue for a while and I can't get a good solid back to rely on so I can get my point across that I am an E5 and you obey the orders of those appointed over you no matter what branch of service.. can someone help me or tell me where to look?

Why am i not grieving?

This week I have lost both my paternal and maternal grandfathers within 4 days of each other, I was very close to them both but I dont feel emotional or upset at all, is this normal? I am almost 32 years of age and apart from my great nan dying when i was 10 I have never lost a direct relative, I also have a consistent dull headache and wonder if this is related?

How do you think mockingjay (from the hunger games) should have ended?

The ending was really good plot wise, with prim dying and everything. However, it was awful how gale was just tossed aside, with no real good bye, even though he was one of the most important characters. I had no problem with Finnick dying(though he was my favorite) other than it was rushed. No moment of sadness really presented itself, unlike prim.

Is Mormonism a Christian religion similar to Methodism or Presbyterianism?

As we face the fact that two Republican candidates are Mormons, it is time for people to get serious and discover what Mormons believe and determine if these beliefs make them just another branch of the Christian faith or something so bizarre, so outrageous, so aberrant when compared to the Orthodox Christian faith that it is time to take a close look at Romney and Huntsman.

Is he worth the risk?

I've been with my boyfriend for three and a half years now, and for the last six months i've become a little dissatisfied with how things are between us. not that i don't love him, i do, it's just the monotony of being with the same person for so long is beginning to drag. Also there's a Polish chap i have a bit of a thing for and last saturday, after we were out at a friends leaving do (my boyfriend was there too), we were texting till 5am while my boyf snored away. i've found out that the polish guy fancies me as much as i do him. the sparks always been there, and basically, with my feeling bored and him in my head, i want to, you know, wander. but my morals wont let me. help??

T3i has a foggy viewfinder?

Alright. So I am not NEW in having a DLSR, I have had one for the past 6 months and took probably around 5k images (I am trigger happy). So I decided that I would upgrade for my birthday and my camera arived today. I got the t3i, yay. But there seems to be a problem. The viewfinder is foggy, and the information like the ISO and framerate is blurry. I am near sighted, though I very might doubt this is the problem. Anyways, foggy, don't know why. The screen shows a far superior picture than the viewfinder, which is strange, and I very much am dissatisfied with that aspect. Is this a faulty camera or am I doing something wrong?

Could you name one thing that you would like Obama to do before he leaves office that has you dissatisfied?

this question goes to both democrats and republican and independents, if you are so disappointed in his policy what policy do you want him to achieve in if he gets 4 more years?

I appreciate that this is horrifically bad, but thoughts?

Not sure why you think "horrifically bad" but I got the picture. The purpose of telling a story, be it fiction or non, is to communicate a thought or idea. I thought it was very descriptive of the details and created a scenario I could see in my head and almost experience with my senses. You gave enough detail but did not overdue it to the extent of boredom. When people read fiction they want the experience of feeling like they are there. Just keep finding descriptions of detail that triggers the readers senses. Like right now I am thinking of chocolate! I can see it, smell it and taste it though I have not even bought it yet:) Just keep in mind it is easier to make the reader experience something they have actually experienced. When it comes to something less common, pay special attention to the key details to make it come alive. Your little excerpt here scores an A+ in my book!!

I'm trying to change my look over the summer.... What things should I get before school starts?

Well I'm moving this summer and this last school year (freshman year) I was dissatisfied with the way I dressed. It didn't reflect who I am; I only wore jeans and sweatshirts (and the occasional Beatles tee shirt). So next year I thought that I would start completely over since I'm moving halfway across the country. The look I'm going for is a mixture of rocker/hippie/scene/goth/lady-gaga.... Ish. My favorite accessories are arm warmers (the thin kind), feather extensions (been wearing them since before they became popular), and hemp jewelry, so I definitely want to incorporate those into my wardrobe. So what type of clothes should I get (skinny jeans are out of the question... I honestly HATE them...)?

Missing mum and dad too much??!!?

Please, go visit a therapist. Maybe you don't realize this, but it's not OK to be miserable every day, and to be scared all the time. You deserve a happy life, and happiness is not where your life is leading to right now. Therapists are professionals and they deal with people with similar problems daily. They will know how to help you. Look, you've done so much, you've been such a fighter and so helpful to those in need, even though it wasn't easy at all. Why should you suffer? It is so unfair. Noble people like you deserve better. Please, don't spend one more day in pain. You don't deserve it! And you will see, as soon as you talk to someone, after that first session, you will feel much better, and everything will be OK. A therapist can show you how to look at the bright side of life and how to deal with the difficulties. Just remember: you've helped so much, you deserve a somebody to help you a little to be better :)

Is it acceptable for a 19 year old girl who is 5' 1 1/2" to weigh 102-104 pounds?

Yes it's acceptable but you're pushing toward the point of being underweight, which is unhealthy for your body. If you were to go under 100, according to the BMI chart, you would be underweight. So 95 really isn't good for you. I suggest you don't go lower than 100. You should already look way past beautiful anyways. Maybe go get some counseling for this? You may become anorexic if you don't, if you aren't already anorexic anyways. I hope you will feel comfortable in your body. Good luck to you.

What do you think of this snippet (honest feedback)?

I really don't feel inclined to give serious editorial comment to something that was written because you were bored. It says to me that you really don't care much about the piece you are writing. Sorry, but that's the impression I get - and it isn't just you. I'm getting quite tired of people posting stuff that they just wrote five minutes ago, asking for critiques and telling me to ignore the spelling and grammar.

Please help me interpret this poem.?

Oh my God, you have no idea how much I hate this poem. The writer, Dylan Thomas, had a father who got old and weak and frail and was practically dying. So this idiot decided to write an entire poem about how you shouldn't just let yourself die and you should fight to the finish. It's a dumb poem by a dumb poet. So, yeah, that's what it's basically about. It's about never giving up hope for survival and you should fight to survive. Blah, blah, blah, I'm going back to Robert Frost now.

What issues was Abe Lincoln facing going into the 1860 election?

well slavery issues had a lot to do with the 1860 election. This was an intense issue to deal with during this time because the south really wanted slaves to work for them while the north didnt want to know anything about having slaves above the 36-30 line. The way he handle this situation was well organized and well planned.

A notice of non-renewal for homeowners insurance after 20+ years. What are my rights, if any? 30 day warning?

I had a claim last August 2010 due to a leak caused by a branch hitting the roof. Apparently the adjuster noticed then that the roof was not proper since it had asphalt shingles over wood shingles because that's the only time anyone has examined the roof. The roof was installed as part of the purchase agreement and it was my understanding the roof had been totally replaced. It was not and I now know that to be the fact. Last Friday, 30 days ahead of the end of my homeowners insurance policy year, I got a notice of non-renewal because the roof was not correct and because the trees need to be trimmed. I don't understand why they didn't mention to me that the roof needed attention as soon as they knew, for one thing. Now, since they have sent this notice of non-renewal, I am unable to know if they will continue my coverage if and when the new roof is put on and the trees are trimmed. My agent won't tell me. I have not missed any payments of premiums for over 20 years. I'm just really do not know what to do now. I would really appreciate knowing from someone who really knows what's going on and I'd appreciate knowing some options. Can anyone help me with this?

How come twigs that are falling out of a tree looks like this?

Good things, and it can to do with everybody share and share. looking forward to you need to answer.

A book of philosophy quotes that inspire conversation?

lookin for a book of philosophy quotes that will inspire me to elborate/ try and understand what they r saying/ mostly for the summer. any gud ones. i dont want to buy it and b dissatisfied..

Eye exam question- treated very nasty?

i had an eye exam back in march at eye masters, and i got fitted for contacts and since then i wore them every day the first week, then one of them ripped and i didn't wear my contacts on the day of my follow up exam, so the woman behind the counter freaked out on me, and was really nasty to me, saying that the contacts need to be in my eyes when i have the exam and i explained that i ripped on of them when i took it out, i think my nail might have done it, and i told her that that was the first day that i had worn my glasses since i had gotten the contacts. and she snapped and told me that it should have in my other eye and i should have worn my glasses over it.but she gave me another contact and was really pissy about getting me the new one. then she told me to come back in half an hour, i had an appointment at 3:30 that day but i had STNA(state tested nursing assistant) testing at school that day and they were running behind, i was scheduled to test at 11:30 that morning, but didn't test until 2:30. but i called to let them know that i would be late, and the woman on the phone(same one i think) was really mad that i said that i was going to be a little late, i ended up getting there at like 3:45, so she tells me to come back in half an hour so i come back in half an hour and she gets pissy with me again and tells me that i should have been there 10 min, ago, and that it would be about a 10 minute wait. and when i got in to see the doctor (real doctor?) she was kinda nasty too, i told her that i feel that i see sharper out of my glasses then i do my contacts, and she was rushing out of the room as i said that, and then she flipped through my chart and she snaps at me and says "well you have astigmatism, and that's just the way that will be." i just feel so dissatisfied with this whole thing i've told my mom what happened, and she isn't happy either. what to do about this and is that true about having astigmastim and seeing sharper out of glasses than contacts? no nasty answers please!

To what extent are our true colors shown after losing a loved one, and how can we tell its a part of their gri?

To what extent are our true colors shown after losing a loved one, and how can we tell its a part of their grieving process?

Can any pine tree be made into a bonsai?

Two weeks ago I found a pine tree sapling (it was really little), and now I want to keep it small. Will it work, and how large should I let it get before I trim the roots and branches?

I upgraded access to internet today and am dissatisfied?

Today I had a notice to upgrade my internet connection. I followed the instructions. The best I recall it stated it was "Internet 9" or something like that. Now, it takes about a minute for my icon to access Yahoo and WestLaw. I wish I had not tried the so-called "upgrade." Thak you.

What is the all around branch of the military? The Army?

If your talking about the DOD or Department of Defense? There is not a all around branch unless you are saying ground assault, air, and being out in the sea I would say the Marines or Navy...

Monday, July 18, 2011

Some kind of graffiti? Please help?

Hello, today someone came out onto our driveway and "graffited" osny in large white letters. However, the y was stylized so that it had an arrow coming out of one of the "branches" of the letter, and the O might possibly be a D, I'm not sure. Please, what does this mean? Someone help.

What branch of the military do you think is most important?

Also, rank the 4 major branches from most important to least important and give me your opinion on why you think that.

Who is more spiteful against muslims?shia or jews?

From what you see in palestine,iraq and syria?baring in mind that the syrian regime is a shia branch/cult and is working along with iran to establish a shia empire.

I'm a nerdy girl who doesn't like nerdy guys...am I doomed to a life alone?

Why don't you shift gears and start doing something with your life out of the ordinary? Maybe you should hang with people who are into sports or outdoor activites. Hanging with the Starbucks crowd is going to yield like-minded people with like-minded interests--mostly people who spend their spare time with their laptop dialed into wifi who are into geeky blogs.

Is this sentence okay? (grammer/spelling)?

Well you spelled redesign wrong, and the sentence doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me outside of context. It sounds a little formal for texting.

How can i make myself?

Crying? I recently broke my 8 year friendship with someone who i trusted the most but later it didn't work out between us. He just has changed a lot and it was like he just take me for granted because he has another best friend (also a woman). I also had feelings for him in the past and i think i still have. I've tried to break this friendship earlier but because i missed him i started to contact him again , but nothing changed everything repeated again...Now i know our friendship will not be the same anymore like it use to be so this time i ended it (again) but this time for good. But i feel so sad i can't sleep i slept at 5:00 a.m cried myself in sleep..i woke up i cried and now i cry the whole day and i'm getting sick of it. How can i make myself stop crying for him? I know you people will say it is normal because i'm grieving but i really want to stop crying and think about him.

General deployment question?

The Marines and Navy Deploy more than anyone cumulatively. In wartime the Army and Air force do their fair share, but even in peace the Navy is forward deployed 24/7 waiting do drop of marines or tomahawks on whoever needs them. Navy is also first responder to humanitarian efforts. During this current ground campaign in Iraq and Afghanistan it hasn't been uncommon for Marine and Army personnel to be deployed for 18+ months and sent again with very little turnaround time.

McCanns: why would Kate and Gerry find book sales a laughing matter?

There is nothing to suggest that the laughter was directly concerned with the book, the media seems to think that everybody should act and live their lives in a certain way and are too quick to judge people

Advice on baby bottles?

I'm pregnant with my 3rd child and am trying to stock up on bottles now. I used Avent with my first two children. I was very satisfied with them with my firstborn, but when I used them with my second child I was very dissatisfied because they leaked a lot. I could some advice on which bottles work the best. I'd appreciate anyones input. thanks!

Sexual compatibility? Is this a deal breaker?

So I've been dating this guy - who btw is anxious and a workaholic and has little time to build a relationship - but I've given him an opportunity because he is a good person. He has been making strides to understand what is needed to make the relationship work, BUT we've been sexually active for nearly three months and I'm extremely dissatisfied and I've made it clear what needs to be done. He thinks it is an area he can improve upon. He says I can "mold him", but I'm extremely skeptical because he hasn't improved in that area. Should I just cut my losses and move on or do I give this more time?

Why are people so negative on the internet?

Do you think it's because they're dissatisfied with their life so they take it out on random people?

Advice about nuva ring ?

Im currently on depo provera, ive had it for just under a year and I'm really dissatisfied. It makes me extremely moody and depressed and I have constant bleeding for a month or more. I've also gained Alot of weight. My health provider said that I should switch to nuva ring but I'm kind of nervous. Any suggestions or advice ?

Was preg but lost baby on tuesday, still not got over it or even started to, little help?

your going to be sad and depressed ,BUT dont let urself get to a situation where it takes over u!! take a day to let it all out and greive,cry bust a glass on floor,relive stress,and then after that tell urself thats it..make urself get out and take a walk,a breather get urself busy to keep ur mind off it..make urself to that person u used to be..he does need to griev as well otherwise it could take over him.you could do a day both u just vent together or the day u vent tell him to go vent it out and after that the both of u need to get passed it and look toward the future..best of luck sweetie...

Im in the process of joining the US Army but I am having major problems. It is going on 8 months now.?

Sounds like your recruiter is bagging you for a light month when he cant make his quota. Or when he plans to take leave and still be able to do his numbers. Why do you need a waiver for something you did as a juvenile? Records sealed. You must have told them. They couldnt pull that up unless you were charged with a felony.

Extended and amended, my Haunting poem, would you leave comments or critique please? Thank you?

Thank you for the final couplet. I thought you'd leave me by this rather strong poem, in this room listening to her weeping and wailing. We must all give up our souls sometime, remove this old decaying vesture as Shakespeare would always say and replace it with a new one. She will get over it - the sooner the better if she wants peace and if she wants to continue her journey. Some Ave Maria, some recited prayer, some group visualization can clear the way for her to help her realize that we must be detached and naked of our earthly chains and baggages if we desire to be attached to the One.

I was shocked to find 2 verses in Quran ordering wife beating!! Anyone has an interpretation?

Ah but Islam is the religion of peace, goodwill and love for all of Allah's creation so when the Holy Qu'ran says beat your wife it clearly means do not beat your wife - simples!

What do I do after I accidentally say something stupid to a girl?

Yup -a comment like that makes you sound like a unfeeling jerk. Ina situation like this unless she mentions it - the less said the soonest mended - there is simply no way to explain your meaning.

Can my rabbits eat Aspen Trees. Like the leaves, branches everything from it?

I have Aspen trees growing in my yard, and my rabbits have latly been going up to them and eating the leaves. I was just wondering if that is okay?

Meals that freeze well for a grieving family?

My boyfriend's father has cancer and does not have much time left. I feel so sorry for the family and try to be there when they need me. I want to make a meal or two for my boyfriend since he hasn't been eating much that he can just keep in the freezer and reheat throughout the week when he needs something to eat. Any suggestions for meals that freeze well?

Is this a good enough diet? I am lost! Please help confused girl.?

Yoplait light is not good for you. Eliminate that from your diet because it contains high fructose corn syrup, the fat building sweetener put in most kids candy in the usa now. Go organic to lose weight. If you are one of those people that thinks it is bad to go organic, it isn't. Organic isn't mercury in tuna. Mercury is something that messes up your brain. Trust me, it's miserable. It's good to be a relaxing model. Eat more keratin supplements!!!

Where can i buy these rappers posters?

I'm looking for Cage posters... Eyedea posters, P.O.S posters, Grieves posters, anything from Rhymesayers posters. Aesop rock posters. Hopsin posters, King Gordy posters, Camu Tao posters... Thanks.

I can't stop thinking about how sexy my boss is... help!?

He is so handsome. He is tall and has broad shoulders but doesn't look like a giant and he has nice clean blonde hair. He wears impeccable suits and he has this aristocratic noes. It's very sexy. Oh and he not my boss per se since I don't really have a boss and I work in a completely different branch than him but he is higher level than me if that makes sense. We have talked before and he seems to like me but he is married and I feel we are getting too close and I just don't want ruin anyone's marriage. How can I make myself to stop thinking about him? :/

What is up with the way teenage girls dress nowadays?

I agree. I'm a 13 year old girl and I am ashamed to say I am. My school isn't that bad with girls dressing like that, but there's this one group of girls in my grade of like 5 or 6 girls that dress and act like sluts. You know? The type that can't be seen without a boyfriend or with their boobs and butts hanging half way out? I hate that group of girls. The people I hang with only wear shirts like aeropostale that cover everything up, and shorts that aren't any shorter than mid thigh. I'm proud to say I don't dress like a prostitute.

Do recruiters from different branches talk to eachother?

Our local recruiting offices are all in one building and the recruiters spend a lot of time talking to one another.

Do you Oppose This Appointment Made by Governor Chris Christie?

On the Tenth-Year Anniversary of the murderous, Islamofascist terrorist attacks of 9/11, Governor Christie has seen fit to dishonor that day of infamy, and its still grieving nation, by continuing to actively and personally promote *his* appointment to the New Jersey Superior Court of a Passaic County Muslim attorney, who defended not only detainees of 9/11, but also the imam of a Passaic County mosque, the second largest mosque in the country, who is subject to deportation by the Department of Homeland Security due to his terrorist ties. The prior imam of that mosque was previously deported for such ties. Mr. Mohammed's curious activity in defense of those with terrorist ties in other matters is highlighted in articles below that were previously distributed across the nation in January 2011.

How to guide a medical doctor's career toward contributing to organ printing and tissue engineering?

I'm a first year med student with interest in organ printing and tissue engineering. How do I make the most of my schooling toward furthering this new branch of medicine? There is a PhD doing research in mesenchymal multipotent stem cells at my school, should I approach him? What should i say? Thank you.

Where are the rights of the FATHER?

woman was so horned up didn't take the pill , the morning after etc.etc.....certainly didn't insist on a rubber..guy not only was horned up but absolutely didn't want a rubber.....men do use them being responsible but never ''want to'' ......you are making an argument for less than 1% of instances

Have you emigrated, and how do you cope with feeling 'stuck' between two places?

My parents emigrated in their late teens from their home countries to the US back in the 50s. Their situation is different in that it sounds like you went to a quality of life that hasn't lived up to your expectations and they found what they were looking for. Nonetheless, my father in particular has never felt like his values are reflected in societal norms in the US. Personally I think he let it make him miserable, so I warn you against that. Make a choice and feel confident in it. If necessary organize a list of things you want and prioritize it. See how each can be obtained and make compromises if you need to. Just don't accept your position and mourn your lost home, number one you'd be making yourself miserable, number two, remember your home has been changing while you are away. It is not what you remember. Good luck.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Help! this company is trying to keep my money!?

It would have been helpful had you told how you paid. Cash, check, credit card; all have different refund rules. It certainly has been long enough, though, that a credit should have been issued. If you paid by credit card, call the issuer. They will give you a temporary credit until the seller finally does what they said they will do. Call the seller and tell them you're going to report this to the Better Business Bureau if you don't get your refund TODAY. Most legitimate sellers don't want this to happen, because so many consumers rely on the BBB's rating of a business. And, as a last resort, you can always sue them in Small Claims Court. That's pretty easy to do and has a very low cost. Good luck.

Let me get this straight. The TSA can strip search little girls but a man can't fly with his boxers showing?

Yes. The TSA is allowed to fondle you, your significant other and your children. Best you not complain either, or they will pounce on you and then fondle you.

Baby bird help?!?!? URGENT!!?

Ok so theres a baby bird in my backyard. It doesnt know how to fly. Its been sitting in my backyard on a branch just chirping for about 5 hours. Literally. Theres no bird chirping that sounds like it so i dont know if its parents are around. I just want to know if its going to be okay at night? Why are its parents not there? Do I need to help it? Are its parents going to come for it?

When did democracy in its current (limited) form take hold in Britain?

I say limited because a powerful branch of their government is still composed of rich, congenital idiots who apparently inherit their positions; AND the monarchy can still influence issues indirectly...

My dad passed away two years ago...?

He died of cancer. I remember that I was very close to him. Much closer than I am with my mom. He was the one who would stop us from fighting every two minutes. The first year after his death, I was fine. I had some sort of peace that kept me from breaking down. But this year, it's like it just suddenly hit me. I'll start crying and missing him so badly I feel like someone is tearing out my heart. I've been fighting with my mom 24/7, my grades are dropping, and I feel like I'm slowly crawling into a shell. I haven't felt like doing much lately. And I also get very frustrated because I know I was close to him yet I can barely remember him. I can't remember the way he laughs, what he smells like, what he looks like (I have a picture under a pillow because I was afraid to forget his face). I only remember some funny moments, and that he helped me with math a lot. That's it. Is this some weird way for my brain to help the grieving process? By forgetting him? Will I recall things later? I'm scared. I don't want to forget...

What would your response be if your girlfriend told you to get over your moms death?

Depends on how long the death was ago- she never should have put it that way... But I've had friend that have lost people YEARS prior and nearly lost who they are. Sometimes "get over it" is really what they need to do. It's still sad, and the person was still important- but you can't throw your life away over another person's death.

How do I contact Facebook staff?

That first person is an idiot. In the name it says "noreply". Do not use that email. Thought I'd warn you.

How does an atheist come to terms with their own grief?

Is it not harder to accept death as final than otherwise. Or does this stance make it easier to get on with life, not expecting any miracle to happen...I know grief is still painful either way. Just trying to understand what is best. I need advice because of a suicide, still grieving after 3 years.

Help! this company is trying to keep my money!?

It would have been helpful had you told how you paid. Cash, check, credit card; all have different refund rules. It certainly has been long enough, though, that a credit should have been issued. If you paid by credit card, call the issuer. They will give you a temporary credit until the seller finally does what they said they will do. Call the seller and tell them you're going to report this to the Better Business Bureau if you don't get your refund TODAY. Most legitimate sellers don't want this to happen, because so many consumers rely on the BBB's rating of a business. And, as a last resort, you can always sue them in Small Claims Court. That's pretty easy to do and has a very low cost. Good luck.

Why is he doing this to me?

My bf dumped me a few months back, but he wanted to remain friends. He wouldnt let me go when i suggested that we have a complete break. He said he loves spending time with me and stuff. We are having a long distance relationship and he is going through a family bereavement where one if his parents passed away. It was after this that he ended things. Its not a friends with benefits situation as i dont even see him much for it to be that. Whenever i tell him i cant see him anymore he says that he is losing his best friend and that he doesnt want to never see me again. He says he doesnt love me but if he doesnt love me then why keep me in your life. I dont get it, and have been so upset all day because im so confused and tormented by this. I love him dearly, and maybe all of this is down to him grieving. He says things like that because of his loss he cannot offer me anything at the moment but friendship because he is not mentally right after losing his parent. I suggested again today of cutting all ties and he says he doesnt want that. So confused and upset, i dont know what to do. Will i ever have him back? Is there a chance we could be like we were again? Has anyone been through something similar? Please help

"For Knights Of Olde Have Been Oft Told...." is a poem for nasty c/c?

ALL of the people of my network, and many outside of it, are being helped by me and improved their poetry, I help sick people, people that have problems of social adopting, I have helped people with parents that died, I have helped almost everybody who knows me, in here, in the science section, the engineering and chemistry and math, I help my co-patriots. I am a kind person when somebody gets sick, weak, alone. I am proud of myself and my people are proud of me. Your friend, Giorgio

Can i join the united states marine corps?

ok well im 20 and no where in life really... ever since i was younger i wanted to be a marine, never ever even though of any other branch. i love the marines. when i was younger i was involved in a knife accident which left me blind in my right eye and as far as i know it cant be corrected. also i have athsma and use a inhaler everyday but if i got in better shape i know i could stop the use of it everyday. ive had athsma ever since i can remember but i have not had a athsma attack since i was like 6 or so.... so i was wondering if these thing are going to keep me out of the military... i cant explain how bad i wanna be apart of something so big.

Do you believe that the human body has the power to control its own emotions?

If a person is constantly being picked on or depressed it will eventually catch up to them and the human body,especially the mind has to give and then the person explodes may be not at the one being mean to them but to the people around them.The same goes for a person who is deeply depressed.

If you have lost a child, could you help me with this question?

I just found out that a dear friend delivered her stillborn son at 20 weeks when her uterus ruptured. I realize that right now she just needs privacy and a chance to grieve, but later down the road when she has had a chance to heal, I would like to get her a memorial gift in honor of her son, Liam. I'm thinking of having Liam's name written in the sand and having it photographed. If you have lost a child would this be a meaningful gift that you would appreciate? a href="http://namesinthesand.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow"http://namesinthesand.blogspot.com//a

Swarovski crystal figurine black dot eye...?

I have a piece by Swarovski ( a pair of lovebirds on a branch that have come off....one...I need to know what glue to use to put them back on branch and two...one of the black dot eyes has been lost and I was wondering if anyone knew where I could find one...sigh...this piece was a limited edition ( members only piece ) that was left to me by my grandparents and I want to restore it back to how it looked....

Totally dissatisfied wwith Yahoo Beta.How do I revert back to toiginal yahoo? Pl. help?

I thought beta will be better. but not so. it is more complicated. i want to revert to original normal format of yahoo mail. how do i do that?

How do I mourn a pet loss?

Time heals all wounds. I've lost a pet before and have other ones that I love and never want to lose but someday may have to mourn. You just have to keep living and remember the good times. They never really die if you keep their memory alive. In time it won't hurt as much.

How can I get back up?

So, I have been in a epic struggle to keep my grade in my math and english classes normal ever since I started high school. I was depressed last year in my geometry class, since I failed at getting a decent grade, I wanted an A and got a D- instead, and in my Adv. english class I finished with a C which was dissatisfying. I am now in algebra 2, where once again I foresee an even graver fate than last year. I know that I can do it, but my will is being rubbed raw by absolute moron math teacher who expects everything that comes out of you're mouth to be perfect and precise to the subject. I know you may be asking why did I take algebra 2 if I still need to work on my math skills, well geuss what! They didn't let me take algebra 1 again. Now for English, I am in Adv. English 2, I chose this fate because the regular english class is actually a lot more work. The stuff i need are creativeness, knowledge of English(verbs, nouns, pronouns, etc.), and good essay writing skills. And even more unfortunately I just don't have the will to move on, my heart and passion for doing my school work has run drier then the sand in the Sahara, and even thoughts of re cooperating are depressing, resulting in me getting stuck in catastrophe mode. Please, give me ideas on how to get out of this with out dropping these classes. Oh and don't call me a whiny little kid, you should know that todays highschools truely fail.

Is acceptance the right attitude to life?

Some people might say that you fail to change for the better what can be changed but others might say that you are, at the very least, not as dissatisfied with what cannot be changed as you could otherwise be.

Can we get a court order to exhume my mother in law and bury her in the back yard?!?

My husband has never dealt with his mother's death and misses her immensely. We want to dig her up so he can see her again and hold her and grieve and let go. She died in the winter of 1989. How do we get a court order so we can exhume her and then bury her in our back yard?

Was anyone else dissatisfied with the way Dark Tower VII ended?

This is the novel that made me start to think (along with a massive boost from the atrocity that was the ending to Under the Dome) that his short novels have become better than his novels. Note: I still like Stephen King i just don't like some of his endings.

Why doesn't he want me?

Well ask him if you really love me y don't you spend time with me and do the things like not just sit down and watch tv all the time we could do more exciting things ... And don't be shy to talk to him unless u want to just sit and watch tv the rest of your life with him..

The Grieving Never Ends?

It means that you do not forget the death of a loved one and that the memories linger. I think that the statement is correct as far as it goes. The memory does fade in most cases after some time has passed./

Muslims: Do females (from Pakistan) ever wish they'd chosen a husband from some other country?

Many females I've come across are so dissatisfied with their husbands some have even referred to them as "Dogs".

Where are the rights of the FATHER?

Nobody should be able to force a woman to give birth. However, I feel that because a woman CAN terminate a pregnancy, if she chooses not to do so, a man should be able to give up his responsibility towards the child(ren), not just his rights.

What is better than servercraft?

Me and my friend are trying to host a minecraft multiplayer server and we are using servercraft currently, but we are dissatisfied with many things about it *cough cough* customer service *cough cough* So does anyone know a better server hosting company-thing?

Till what rank in RPET can i get a good college in Jaipur?

Like in JECRC,UDML,SKIT etc. what rank is considered? i hv 7000 around rank in RPET so can i get these colleges and what branch can i get?

Why Dream about water EVERY NIGHT for the last 23 years?

I understand there is emotion behind dreaming of water? But why can I not pin point the emotion? since I was 3 years old I can not recall a day that has gone by that I did not dream about water. It is usually more often than not, a conceptual marine environment. Plants that do not exsist, animals that do not exist, broken bridges made of unknown materials.... Most of the time the water is clear and I can see everything and I can breathe underwater all while knowing it is not possible, but for me in my dream it is normal. I come in contact with strange animals that I usually do not know if I should be afraid or accept them. Every once in a while I will dream of dark water and i am up to my neck and surrounded by alligators, but they never hurt me..... But I am always scared they will. or I will be jumping from flaoting rock to rock or branch to branch to avoid them..... and these rocks and branches in reality would not even hold the weight of a cat. Last night I dreamed of A large clear spring surrounded by trees, there were lots of people and there was a bus under water too.... i was appraoached by dolphins, but they were covered in algae. they acted like dogs...wanting to be petted and talked to.... .... i just want to know why I am connected to water so much and it plays an 8 hour role every day of my life.

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Where can i get name of all universities in usa which gives the hydraulic structures branch.?

i want to apply for usa universities in hydrualic structures for phd but i cant find a good site...thks if you help me.

Can I press charges for personal videos being tampered with?

I have a work/personal cell phone (I opted out is carrying 2 phones) and I accidentally left a video that was very personal on it from months ago. While I was at event, no cell phones were allowed so I asked my co-worker to take my cell to my office for me. Later that night, while at home I get an email of something that was sent from my phone to the branch managers email address. When I looked on my phone to see what it was, it turned out to be that video. Can I do anything?

My boyfriend wants to 'give it a rest' temporarily?

No guy wants to give IT a rest. No guy. What he wants is to keep you on the hook while he goes playing around. Also a part of his immaturity. My advise: Just give him a legit break-up. Accepting that, he might just grow up a bit. And also accepting that, you'll know where you stand and be free to do as you please without guilt. Good Luck.

What are the chances I got her pregnant?

I would say the chance is slim to none. But it really depends on what brand of condom you used. In my opinion I would never trust a Lifestyle condom.

I always thought I didn't love my boyfriend. Now that we are over, I realize I am so in love with him.?

You are toxic to each other and neither one of you has one clue about being mature and adult in any relationship, and until you do, it is pointless to even try another one or keep the one you have. It is over now, try to learn something form the wreckage so you don't repeat all your mistakes. In the meantime you need to stay on your own and try to maure.

Do you think I should get a dog?

of course u should get a dog. they are wonderful! jus research the type of dog you want. some dogs are much easier to train than others. animals are not like a job. it will be easy. im 22, i work and go to college full time. ive always had multiple pets. right now i have a dog 2 cats and a rabbit. i easily manage to do my wrk and give them the necessities and love they need. get the dog, you'll love it :)

Two ROTC Questions for Any Branch?

Wrong, you can do ROTC in grad school, it's just kind of awkward. It's simply a class you sign up for. Also ROTC is not 4 yrs, it's really only two but in order to be in the last two years you must do one of the following: A) complete first 2 yrs of ROTC. B) complete basic training/AIT(do guard or reserves) or C) take a 5 week summer course called LTC( google it). Since your in grad school and it's not 4 yrs, I would advise you enlist at your state's national guard, sit out a fall semester(take classes in summer) to attend BCT/AIT, and upon completion immediately contract ROTC becoming a SMP cadet.

I don`t feel she loves me the way I love her.?

i hate to break it to you mate but by the things you have said i dont think she does love yo as much as you do her

Why does crying make you tired afterwards?

Why does crying make you feel tired or sleepy afterwards? And i mean when its sad crying like grieving crying..what causes your body to feel tired afterwards? And can too much crying damage your tear ducts or anything?

What does line 5&6 in Remember by Christina Rossetti mean?

After she she is dead, it is too late to give advice (counsel) or to pray for her. There is nothing left to do but remember - although at the end, there is not even that: she says it is better to forget and be happy,

Please help! i love you!?

Which is NOT a power the Legislative Branch has over the Executive Branch?A.approving presidential appointmentsB.declaring presidential acts unconstitutionalC.controlling the budgetD.passing laws after a presidential veto

What do you think is a good punishment for a referee that makes a bad call?

nothing? why should they be fined for a genuine mistake? how many people have made mistakes in their jobs or in school. reffing is a really hard job and they don't get as much credit as they deserve in my opinion. So just let them get on with their jobs! and plus isn't human error what makes the game more exciting, if every call was correct what would you and your friends talk about in the pub on a saturday night?

How can "burning in hell" be painful if you leave your physical being behind when you die?

Many people use the argument that when a person grieves over the loss of a loved one that's pain in the soul, but it's pain in the heart (the actual organ) because the blood is clogging and can't flow through as smoothly, therefore it's still a physical pain

If you had a choice, would rather not have existed?

We have to go through joy and grieve, through pain and ease, through happiness and depression etc so would you have loved the fact that you never had existed in the first place?

Is my grieving process normal? It's only been 3 days and I'm hardly sad. ?

My uncle passed away about 3 days ago from suicide. I am 20 years old and never lost anyone close before him. Although I hadnt seen him in 6 months we were pretty close while he was alive. When I got to the hospital he was still alive and I stayed with him until he died, holding his arm until he took his last breath. For the next 2 days I was really upset and constantly crying but today I have hardly been upset at all. I went in his bedroom and just felt at peace. Is this normal? Am I numb or just content with knowing that he wants me to be happy?

LOOK :P What do you think of my response Poem? Offer any feedback.?

I think it comes off as forced, as you have bottled yourself in, as you try to rhyme those long ee words, to the point that the power of the poem is sapped by your whimsy

The best way to get rid of my mother's male friend?

My mother is too niave to realize that the guy is a snake. Hes been all around town chasing widows and married women. He only uses women for a ride. he doesnt have a car. he talks about her when she is not around. When my father died, he came over advertising himself and asking for another woman not my mother. He had no respect for the dead and grieving family. I tried sabotaging the phone but now he arrives. I need help if my mother still sees this *** I am leaving. I dont give a hoot where i go. I dont think i stand too muh more of this.

My best friends depession?

Hey guys...My best friend of 11 years is being dealing with depession every since we have known each other...she is taking meds and see a dr regularly...and she has also been hospitalized for her depession but not for over a year now...well four months ago her dad passed away and she and him were very close...she is having a very hard time dealing with this and is not accepting his death at all...we do out to the cemetary together...anyway...I see her almost everyday and she spends alot of time with me and my husband and our little girls Her family is not supportive at all...her mom makes her feel like **** and her kids dont come around they are half of the problem with her depression....I normally dont have any problem with knowing how to help her but early this morning she texted me and says dont come here today...Im having a really bad day...now I know for a normal person that would mean to leave them alone but with someone with depession and bypolar and grieving...do you guys think that this means leave me alone today or please come I really need you...I am just wondering if I should just go see her anyway...she always feels so much better after we talk and she can cry and know that there is someone who cares about her...but I dont want to smother her either....thanks...depession can be a very confusing thing for someone who doesnt have it....

How do I deal with someone I thought was my friend telling people we are sleeping together?

My husband passed away a little over a year ago. My daughter just turned 4 and I just turned 40. So we're not dealing with school-age bullying, we are adults. I have a male friend I've known since middle school and is recently divorced, He moved back to our hometown after being gone for years. He knew my husband in school and also of his sudden death. We started hanging out together often, just talking about his divorce, what I was going through, and how both of these things were affecting his son and my daughter. It wasn't anything I wouldn't do with a female friend. I really thought of him as a great friend and he always seemed so compassionate to my feelings when I was talking about my husband. He really was ultimately concerned for my well-being and my daughters'. He started making little comments as time went by that made me wonder if I was giving him the wrong impression. Or some sort of flirting that may be misunderstood, I didn't know. We had the "talk" (several times-over about 6 months time). He always seemed so understanding, and told me he knows we are just friends, and he's not taking it that way, and I'm going through alot, and I have my daughter to be worried about right now.....and etc.....always the "friend". Will be there if we need anything...blah, blah, blah..Come to find out...He's been leaving this open for people to draw the conclusion that we are, and have been having sex when we are together. I am beside myself with anger and humiliation. I could only imagine how people think of me as a "grieving wife" and mother. I honestly don't know how to handle this...please help..my heart feels ripped out, again.

Capacitor Voltage changed instantaneously?

Say you have a capacitor in series with a resistor and a battery. After a while the capacitor has a voltage equal to the battery. After you flip a switch a new capacitor gets placed in series with the other capacitor. Using the conservation of charge, the voltage across the equivalent capacitance is (C1 + C2)*V/C2. Where C1 is the original capacitor, C2 is the new capacitor in series, and V is the voltage of the battery. Why is the voltage across the equivalent capacitance higher than the battery dissatisfying KVL and why does the voltage change instantaneously? My professor said this is right but did not explain why.

What do you think of the beginning of my story?

It's fantastic! Really good. The only part I don't like is the sentence, "She wished to find her cat again..." The tense seems off. Also, I don't think you need to editorialize by saying "Seven year old girls tended to believe in miracles." Say Sara believed in miracles, but don't step outside her point of view. Good work. Your brother will love it.

Daily Face Regimen Suggestions?

Clinique 3-Step. I love it so much, I actually look forward to washing my face. They also have an Acne Solutions version if you like. It's available at Sephora (I almost live there, I would know).

How to stop binge/boredom eating?

you can still eat unhealthy foods if you'd like but just make sure you eat the right amount. if you think you needed more, instead of getting more. drink a lot of water because they tend to make you even more full than you don't have to worry about it.

Can you transfer schools using 1 transcript from one schools of 2 that you attended?

I went to 2 different 4 yr universities one in Ohio the other in Texas. But I have dissatisfying GPA at my Texas school and is wondering if I apply to another school using my Ohio transcript will I get accepted?

Which Mp3 player should I get?

The SanDisk Sansa Fuze 8GB can perform the tasks that most people in the market for an affordable mp3 player are looking for. The size makes it ultra portable and throwing it into a purse or even a pocket is super easy. The battery life and playback capabilities are more than adequate. It is no iPod or Zune but for those looking for a budget device for their first parlay into the mp3 market will be more than satisfied with the Sansa Fuze.

My cat just had kittens this afternoon and she's completely ignoring them?

she had 5 but 1 died. is she grieving? she's the basement under the bed and her kittens are two feet away on a towel. her food and water is near too. she lets ppl touch them and when they move them towards her, she doesn't do anything???

What do you think of the beginning of my story?

I think it's really interesting! It leaves the readers wondering whether the husband is hallucinating about his wife every day or whether she's actually a ghost...I for one would definitely keep reading :)

How hard is it to switch branches once your enlistment is up and keep the same MOS?

Extremely hard right now. Also, MOS's don't generally transfer over easily. You would still have to go to your new branches AIT if you wanted the same MOS.

Hard fish quiz, do you know them?

2 is easy its a leech lmfao but hmmm # 1 and # 2... #2 i think is...hmmm a chimera? and number 1....lmao its gotta be the crocodile fish =P i am 17 and wanna become a marine biologist so keep this up that was fun =D

Friday, July 15, 2011

How long will this take!?!:,((?

Yesterday, my boyfriend/bestfriend, moved halfway across the country..he's a junior, I'm a sophomore. I don't love love him but I do love him more than anybody. We're so close and we would hangout every single day. The next time I'll see him is in about 5 months:( MAYBE next month but that's highly unlikely..we keep in touch but it's not the same as being with him. I've know he was going to move for awhile now so I think I started the grieving process before he left. I used to cry all night everytime I thought about him leaving. Now, I barely cry..but I'm still upset and it hurts a lot. How long do you think this grieving is going to take? How long is it going to last? So upset:(

Should the compulsory education laws be abolished?

The first thing that should be done is abolish the teachers' unions. The second thing is we do away with vouchers for charter schools that are funded by those with radical agendas and replace them with vouchers for parents who pay taxes that enable their children to attend schools within the county, but not necessarily in their school district. Find out which schools are attracting the most students and why. Either do away with schools that are not functioning properly or implement new ideas that are making the other schools effective. Give more freedom to parents in home schooling. The government should not be able to decide how your children will be educated. If the kid doesn't aspire to go to college and be successful, then why should the government care? They don't seem to care when this occurs in our public education system.

Computer engineering or Civil engineering!!! pls. help....?

You should do what you're interested in, it seems like your interested in computer engineering so that's what you should do, it's your life, not his. By the sounds of it you could also do computer science if you like programming.

During intercourse I get continuous contractions.Is this normal?

Even after final orgasm, in few minutes time I feel urge for more sex. Again I demand but my husband shows his inability. I ask for licking of my boobs and fingering vagina. On doing so again I get orgasm. I feel going on but my husband after sleeps. I feel dissatisfied.

My dog died while a close friend was pet sitting, I am really sad..how do i cope?

Be completely honest with your friend about how you are feeling. That will help you grieve. I'm sorry you lost your pet.

Why do homosexual women show less discontent than their heterosexual counterparts towards their sig others?

Really? that isn't what I've heard. I've heard that their relationships fail at the same rate and that they face domestic violence at the same rate as well. Same goes for gay male relationships - all the same crap happens to them that happens to straight people. They get cheated on. They fight. They break up. Stuff happens. The only difference appears to be who they're sexually attracted to. They aren't better at relationships and they aren't happier. They're still just regular people.

What can be done for the failed cosmetic surgery?

Often after surgeries patients get marks left but they are removed after a span of time. But as you are saying that the doctor is having a bad review already so you need to talk to the surgeon about this and take advice from other surgeon as well and tell that surgeon that you are going to file lawsuit if they do not respond properly.

How do you get over the death of a friend?

My friend died a month or so ago suddenly. She was possibly the sweetest most Christian like woman (she was in her early 20's) that I have EVER met. I feel as if I'm all alone because although alot of people are grieving... I feel like I don't have the right to. She was one of my friends, but I wasn't that close to her and I don't know why I feel this way... I have known her all of my life, just wasnt that close to her. Her death is hurting me worse than I ever imagined. I have experience with death, even with people that were closer to me ( ex. grandparents, aunts, cousins).. in other words I know how it USUALLY feels. Please dont make fun of me or critisize, I just want experienced answers... please.

Need some advice! Joining the Military.?

I've had three brothers work as recruiters for the US military, and I'll tell you what they told me: Get Things In Writing. Your recruiter may offer you the moon and stars and tell you how qualified you are for the dream job, but what he says to you doesn't matter - what matters is what he writes on the enlistment contract you sign. Your contract might specify certain schools, for example, or a guarantee of your first duty assignment, but if it isn't written then the military is under no obligation to even try to get you what the recruiter offered.

Lol, why do people keep dying in Wuthering Heights?

I mean they get sad and grieved and die. They get fever and die...lol, by the end almost everyones dead :(

Has anyone been to the Primark in Bromley?

Has anyone else been here? OH MY GOD it is always SO busy. The queue is rediculous and you are constantly being pushed and shoved around! Is there more than one branch of Primark in Bromley?

Bank account transfer letter format.?

I already have a bank account in Federal bank. But now a new branch is opened near my house. so I want to transfer my account to new branch. so tell me a letter format...

Who is more spiteful against muslims?shia or jews?

From what you see in palestine,iraq and syria?baring in mind that the syrian regime is a shia branch/cult and is working along with iran to establish a shia empire.

Feeling incredibly lonely, along, anxious and depressed?

Sounds like you've had an awful time . . . I too have lost a great love in the last few months and know exactly how you feel. I wish I had an answer that would make you feel better immediatley but im still trying to find it myself. You're doing really well to keep smiling, you should praise yourself for that and focus on spending time with good friends who you know you can talk to. I would also talk to your Dr about some counselling and support. You have an awful lot to think about, it would probably help to have a safe place to talk out how you feel. Don't knock yourself for eating too much, if it comforts you in the short term while you adjust then go with it. As soon as you feel better you're appetite will go back to normal. I have spent alot of time reading posts from a website called tinybuddha.com they send emails every day with wisdom, that helps to change my perspective when im feeling low. The greatest advice I have received is that no emotion is final and no situation permanent. Everything in life moves on, even when you think it isnt and one day you will wake up and find yourself in a place you never thought you would reach ;o)

Does anyone actually think that Casey Anthony is actually innocent?

you can just look at her and know shes guilty that look on her face she doesn't look like a grieving sad mother who lost her daughter she looks mad

Since the bible is so full of contradictions, will you consider it is not the word of god, but of men?

WOW. u shud copy and paste that list so u can use it for reference. and the bible is full of lies and truth and fiction. its not 100% right. and btw not all of those are contradictions some are some arent.

Want todo M.Tech in VLSI & embedded electronics.What electonic area should i take for B.tech instrum or commu?

Well I have two options for B.tech electronic & communication and electronic & instrumentation.My ultimate aim is M.tech in VLSI design & embedded electronics. Is VLSI design & embedded electronics accessible by both the branches or is it only accessible via electronic & instrumentation or vice versa.need answer urgently

When do males stop getting taller?

im 19 years old and im just over 5'10. im not dissatisfied with my height, but i wouldnt mind being at least 6 ft. back in 8th grade i sprained my ankle playing basketball and i remember the doctor that gave me x-rays said my growth plates were still very far apart and that i would probably reach around 6'2 or 6'3. however since 8th grade i've only grown about 3 inches :( what are the chances i get at least another 2 inches before im done??

How do I get past being disqualified from the military?

You could keep trying, but they are very picky. I wish you the best of luck. Sometimes you have to realize it's just not for you.

Best make up, foundation??!!!?

I'm looking for a good foundation. I'm 14, and most people say that when your young you should just use powder because its more natural. I have a bare minerals powder foundation that i do really like but it doesnt really cover up that much, and i dont think it looks that natural. My mom sells mary kay and i have a creme foundation from them i use that i like and think works better than the powder. I want to try a liquid foundation, but i dont know what to use. I kind of want to branch out of the mary kay and i dont know who has the best make up. I'm kind of between MAC and Make Up Forever. Whats your favorite??!! And lipsticks that you like? Your favorite brand?

Do the people of Saudi Arabia accept the laws of the state or are they dissatisfied?

for example, the draconian measures of public beheadings and the inequality in the country . is this accepted in saudi arabia or is the nation vying for change?

Suffered a miscarriage at 2 this morning, i feel so empty and alone?

Im so sorry for your loss it is so hard..... what is happening is normal.....but u have to try with ur daughter because remember shes urs already...... grieving is perfectly normal and hopefully u will be able to cope soon!!!!

How much time did you take off work when your mother (or loved one) passed away?

My mother passed away a little over a week ago and so I took a week off from work to spend time with the family and tend to funeral arrangements. I just came back to work this week however I am still feeling a little tired from the whole ordeal. How much time did you take off from work to grieve your loss? I was told going back to work for some people helps them during the grieving process in that it keeps their minds and bodies busy.

Which branch of service will give me a six pack or at least make me lose 25 pounds off my fat a**?

my brother in law had about the same issue as you. He lost 40 pounds before he was able to join the Army, and then when he went through basic he lost another 30. It is just what you are able to do for yourself.

Media effects on mens body?

They ever increasing percent of overweight and obese people clearly shows that the to obsession with gyms and affect of the media isn't that great.

How can I make girls like me and have better self esteem?

Hi, I'm Menachem, to start things off, I'm 19, single, and I'm a college student in New Jersey. My question has to do with girls and how to deal with the issue of loneliness in general. Although I've liked alot of girls over the years, the only real girlfriend that I've had was in high school, but I broke it off because i decided we weren't right for each other and she had alot of very serious issues that I won't get into right now. The point is that I'm a very lonely and insecure person, and I don't know what to do about it. I'm extremely self-deprecating, which is something that my former girlfriend complained about when she said that I was too vulnerable. I know this is a problem. I'm oversensitive and even when I'm around people who are supposed to be my friends, I feel like there's no connection, and no one understands how I really feel inside. I know none of this sounds very good and I can understand why insecurity is a turn off for girls. I can't help feeling like something important is missing from my life, and I think about meeting a girl that would love and understand me and make me feel better about life so much that it frustrates me when it never happens. I'm actually not that bad at talking to girls but no one that special has ever come along, so I just feel empty and dissatisfied. I don't know what anyone here can do to help me, but maybe someone has advice about how to help me deal with this stuff

Badger Roaming In My Garden?

This Badger Was Roaming My Garden And Just Left It Was Here Yesterday Too I Dont Like It Personally And It Broke One Of My Tree Branches, Help!

When do you stop grieving the death of a friend?

The grieving period may never stop. However, you need to be able to cope with that grief. Therapy may help you to see that he would not want you to feel unhappy, and that the whole world can't stop for one person's death. You miss him, and you hurt, and that is fine. But don't ruin your life over him. He'd want your happiness.

Military Relationships! and Branch Question?

So I have been with my current boyfriend for 4 years now. We have had a long distance relationship which has worked out well. He has been speaking to me lately about joining the military. Now, I don't think there is anything wrong with the military and in my opinion it is a very honorable position for a man to hold. However I can't help but get nervous when I imagine him gone. Alot of people tell me that this will be easy for me because we have held a LDR for a while now. I think what worries me most is not knowing where he is and whether he is safe or not. All in all I'm worried something will happen to him. I know I'm probably naive about the way the military works and thats why I am on here. I want to hear from other military gf's, and ask how they've dealt with it, and what I can expect. I can't talk him out of this and I already know that but I want to be supportive and to be able to do that I need to know what I am going to be dealing with. Also, what is the difference between the Marines, Army and Air Force? I know he is leaning toward Marines but I've heard Air Force is easier to deal with. I'm not sure. Thanks.

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Which of the following is NOT an expressed power of the Legislative Branch?A.creating taxes to raise moneyB.determining the middle wageC.regulating interstate and foreign tradeD.creating, or coining, money

Can someone break down what this 'personality' thing means?

Every single thing you say and do causes a little bit of your personality to chance. Considering the last 3 paragraphs, I can say without a doubt that those are my traits. I fell in love a month ago, and today I'm taking risks I never would have before. Things may go wrong, but without a little jump and faith, I would still be a lonely narcissistic shell of a man. Be bold and take what you want, but be considerate of others. Personality is just a big variable. In the end humans are all the same. The choices we make though, are what make us different. So in a nutshell, our personality is defined exactly by the things we do and say in everyday life.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Who is more spiteful against muslims?shia or jews?

From what you see in palestine,iraq and syria?baring in mind that the syrian regime is a shia branch/cult and is working along with iran to establish a shia empire.

Whiny 19 week old - normal development or personality trait?

My daughter is almost 20 weeks and in the past week or so, she's developed this new squealing sound/whine whenever she's dissatisfied with something (i.e. she's bored with a toy, she doesn't want to be sitting in the Bumbo or car seat anymore, she's tired, etc.). It can actually drive me quite crazy! I'm wondering if this is normal for this age as babies are developing boundaries and expressing themselves more or if this is a lovely personality trait of hers?

Would a guy EVER love me? I'm very doubtful?

lol hun im the same way (minus the shower/burping/fartingand eating with mouth open part guys dont like that no one does) trust me guys will like you cause if you are attractive a guy will put up with anything from you lol. i have learned this then eventualy they find your flaws cute so just be you and you will attract some that will like you and some that wont thats life but when your attractive you can usualy pull just about anything off lol. good luck and just be you :) and the guys that come along that dont like you just wasnt man enough to handle you so you didnt need them anyways :) but if you like burping and farting wait till after your in a relationship cause guys will talerate it then lol (im guessing) and chew with your mouth shut thats just rude and nasty not to. and shower no one will want you if you dont shower hun. and the being annoing part i do that sometimes to but not the way you do i end up talking ALOT lol everyone has something annoing about them you seem young so trust me when i say anners is a big thing you may not like them but your not bing "one of the guys" cause you dont have manners cause any respectible guy has manners also

I'm trying to change my look over the summer... What should I get before school starts?

Well I'm moving this summer and this last school year (freshman year) I was dissatisfied with the way I dressed. It didn't reflect who I am; I only wore jeans and sweatshirts (and the occasional Beatles tee shirt). So next year I thought that I would start completely over since I'm moving halfway across the country. The look I'm going for is a mixture of rocker/hippie/scene/goth/lady-gaga.... Ish. My favorite accessories are arm warmers (the thin kind), feather extensions (been wearing them since before they became popular), and hemp jewelry, so I definitely want to incorporate those into my wardrobe. So what type of clothes should I get (skinny jeans are out of the question... I honestly HATE them...)?

Are successful entrepreneurs successful because they are always dissatisfied with what they have achieved?

You know, that might be part of their make up. But clearly the most important part of their make up is they don't quite after failure. They press on.

How to argue with a Marine?

So one of my friends is a Marine, and he's talking crap about the other branches of the military. Any historical tips to argue about the other branches being just as good? I just want to shut him up and teach him a little respect for the other branches of service.

Would agree this story was an epic fail?

It's common for artists to dislike their own work. If they are truly driven to create, they keep going anyway, in the quest for improvement.

Did I do the right thing with this fledgeling?

Ok so earlier today my sisters found a baby bird flapping around the front yard, but it had all it's feathers, after doing some searching I discovered this bird was a fledgling and that it was supposed to be outside the nest, so I took the bird to the front yard where we found it and set it on a low hanging bush branch, he's still out there on the branch, chirping up a storm. Did I do the correct thing?

What is a "muse" in general and what category would these two powerful beings fit in?

If no God/s then,it should be a higher source?I don't know what a muse is either,but will find out...Sounds good,what ur have so far.

Ok to grow Norfolk Island Pines in the ground?

I've been googling around and almost all posts mention leaving it in a pot as an indoor plant. I have one about 3 feet tall that I recently planted under a flowering plum tree with partial sun. It has about 5 feet before it would reach the plum tree branches... I'm in the SF Bay Area. Ok to leave it where it is does it have to go back into a pot. It can't go indoors so that option is out.